Agree on values and commitments as a couple

“my partner and I want to make sure we agree on the big things”

Each partner answers a values questionnaire privately; answers are compared only if both consent; agreed boundaries and commitments are written into a shared agreement both acknowledge; commitments are tracked and the agreement is reviewed periodically and can be renegotiated at any time.

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Part of this works today

You get a real first result now. The remaining steps are being built; when they are released, people who asked for this are told.

What you bring

Nothing to prepare. Start with what you have; Conteenua asks for more only when a step needs it.

Free and paid

Free: Questionnaire, comparison, agreement note, reviews and tracking; no credits.

Paid: No paid step.

People start this with

“We want a stable, committed relationship where we both agree on exclusivity.”
“We want to keep the promises we make to each other.”
“We want to check that we agree on the big things: children, money, religion, where to live.”
“We want clear boundaries about fidelity that we both agree on.”
“My partner and I keep having the same fight”
“We're getting engaged and want to talk about money, kids and roles”